When Love Becomes a Hollow Space.

Have you ever wondered why the reasons for divorce today seem so different from those in the past? While traditional reasons like abuse or neglect are still valid, the evolving nature of marriage has introduced new dynamics that many struggle to understand.

In the past, marriages often revolved around clear roles: men were the providers, and women managed households. If these roles were fulfilled, the partnership was deemed successful. Divorce was primarily attributed to extreme reasons like abuse, neglect, or violence.

However, today’s relationships place greater emphasis on emotional connection, shared meaning, and mutual compatibility. When these elements are absent, partners may find themselves in a “hollow” marriage, where the bond feels more like a ritual than a relationship. Emotional disconnection, lack of purpose, and incompatibility are now seen as valid reasons to part ways.

It’s crucial to acknowledge that moving away from a marriage due to emotional needs is as valid as leaving because of abuse, as long as both partners are treated fairly in the process. Marriage, like society, evolves—and so do the reasons for ending one.